If you're feeling a little overwhelmed by what comes next, you're not alone. Planning a wedding is a big task, but it doesn’t have to feel impossible. That’s exactly why we’ve created this "Planning Your Wedding" series to guide you through each step, one by one, in a way that feels calm, manageable, and even fun!
Let’s break it down...
1. You're Engaged!
First things first take a moment to enjoy that newly engaged glow. This is such a special time, and just starting to think about planning is a huge step in the right direction.
2. Choose a Season
Before you set a date, think about what season you’d love to get married in. Each one offers something different, from cosy autumnal vibes to sunny summer celebrations. Your choice will influence everything from venue availability, to décor and even dress style!
3. Write a Guest List
Start noting down the key people you want to share your day with. You won’t have final numbers just yet, but having a rough idea will help with venue decisions and overall planning.
4. Choose Your Wedding Party
Whether you're sticking to traditional roles or creating your own version, now's the time to decide who will be standing by your side. Let them know in your own meaningful way!
5. Set a Budget
Budgeting can feel a bit daunting, so let's break it down. First, create a list of everything you want to include in your wedding. Then, start assigning a budget to each item. If you have a total amount in mind, then work backwards from there to figure out what’s realistic.
7. Choose Your Wedding Year
Once you know your budget and how long you may need to save, you can decide when the big day will be. Whether it’s next year or in three years, it’s all about what works for you as a couple.
8. Attend a Wedding Fair (or Two!)
These events are full of inspiration and freebies! They’re a brilliant way to meet suppliers face-to-face and start piecing together your vision.
9. Choose Your Venue
Arguably one of the biggest decisions! Take your time, enjoy the process, and don’t rush. When you find the one, you’ll know.
10. Book Your Suppliers
From your photographer to the cake maker, start booking your dream team. Great suppliers get snapped up early, so once you’ve got your date and venue confirmed, it’s time to get those bookings in.
11. Create a Wedding Website
A handy hub for your guests, your wedding website can hold all the extra info that won’t fit on your invites. Sites like Hitched and With Joy make this super easy (and free!).
12. Dress / Suit Shopping
This is where it gets exciting! Choose an outfit that feels so you. Something that makes you feel confident, comfortable, and ready to walk down the aisle.
13. Bridesmaids & Groomsmen Attire
Coordinate your crew! Think about colours, matching vs mismatching styles, and whether you’ll contribute to the cost.
14. Wedding Rings
Time to go ring shopping! Try on a variety of styles, keep your budget in mind, and enjoy the experience. This is a once-in-a-lifetime moment.
15. Plan Your Honeymoon
Whether it’s a luxury getaway or a cosy minimoon, carve out time to dream up your perfect post-wedding escape. Discuss budget, destination, and whether guests might contribute as a gift.
16. It’s Time!
Final décor drop-offs done, now it’s time to relax, be pampered, and soak up every moment of your big day surrounded by love. You did it congratulations! 🎉
Planning a wedding is a journey, and while it can feel overwhelming at times, breaking it down into simple, manageable steps really does make all the difference. Whether you're planning an intimate celebration or a big festive bash, remember that this process is about the two of you and the life you're building together.
Take it one step at a time, enjoy the little moments, and don’t forget to celebrate each milestone along the way. We’re so thrilled to be part of your planning journey and can't wait to see your dream day come to life!
